well, according to the friend of my student. admittedly, i was wearing jeans, a school sweatshirt and my green chucks since it was a friday--dressdown/spirit day. but still! a 13 yo thought i was an 8th grader. that's a bit much. i would go w/18-19 yo at the very least. i usually average 21-22, which isn't bad for 29. oh--and guys? stop fetishizing my job!!! it's gross. i teach middle school. that already comes with some sticky territory when you're a younger, attractive teacher. and there have been waaaaaay too many new stories lately where the adult in question is a female in her 20s and the minor in question is a middle school boy. not kosher, even if an informal poll determined that 10 out of 10 (straight) boys would be more than willing to have sex with a female teacher they thought was attractive.